Really Real

Okay, it’s time to say it. We’ve been sold a bill of goods. For decades now, Hollywood has sold us an idea about what defines a real man. He’s John Wayne, James Bond, and Jason Bourne all rolled into one. He’s strong, independent, fearless, and often silent. What...

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Break the Silence

I'm looking for men who are ready to break their silence. Whose marriages may be in trouble or they are—but don't know what to do about it! The response has been very positive about SOS Men's Coaching. I hear responses like, Isn’t that every guy? Everywhere you look...

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Do You Want Easy?

As part of SOS Men's Coaching I'll ask you this question: Which button would you choose? A. The Easy button: To have your marriage or issues in your life become easier? Or B: The Purpose button: To find purpose in your struggles? Which button you choose is important...

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Are You Ready?

I am inspired. Last week I spoke with courageous men about SOS Men’s Counseling. They’re courageous. They’re willing to admit they don’t know how to improve their marriages or how to step out of their emotional rut. Sure, they confess they don’t understand their wives, but

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Let’s Do This!

"Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent…” – Proverbs 17:28 The modern day version of this is “Better to be silent and thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt!" So why am I so bent on overcoming silence? I wrestled with this idea, since seeing a...

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Keep it Up!

“Keep the shiny side up.” This is sage advice given to professional race car drivers. It’s a humorous, yet serious way of saying “make sure you stay in the race.”

Now, I’m not a big racing fan, but even I can figure out that once the shiny side is down the race is over. Sadly, there are many voices out there that distract us from keeping the “shiny side up” when it comes to marriage.

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